Diaries of a Relation-shit

are bad. Personal confession to the boys in my life.

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I liked you. I was working on getting over you. We made out. I still like you, and am guessing the summer will be used to get over you. I wonder what next year holds.

I don’t want to get over you.

If I hold you, will you tell me I should go? Should I chance it or would it be better not to know?

• didn’t have money to pay for movies
• wouldn’t text or call me first
• didn’t want to talk to me
• parents didn’t like us dating
• friends with exes
• never invited me on any dates
• didn’t seek out to be with me
• different sense of humor

• Another helpful task is to write a list of 50 things that you like about yourself. This might take some doing, but it is a rewarding exercise. You see, when we are dumped we tend to take the blame on our own shoulders. We mentally beat ourselves up for not being more fun or more intelligent, or more attractive, or better in bed.
• Other red flags: feeling like you have to walk on eggshells around a guy and dropping everything to spend time with him even though he’s proven he wouldn’t do the same for you.
  
• “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

I hate him. I hate him. Why does he hate me?